Back in April when I got married I got a husband and a daughter. Lucky for me she is 11 and so much fun to be with. Ive decided it' kinda like being a grandma in your 20's. I get to do all the fun things like get nails done, see movies etc... without ever having to be the bad guy. I don't understand how any stepmom could ever be mean? If you would have told me when I was younger that I would have had a stepdaughter it would have probably freaked me out. However, lucky for me she is totally amazing. Of course she is only 11...should I wait till the teen years?